Whim's of Kim's

venting......

2009-07-14T22:09:00.002-06:00

Just A Wondering......

2009-04-29T21:32:00.002-06:00

Where did April go? Here I've planned on at least doing monthly updates and April already almost gone and that just dawns on me now.! I guess I spent it busily! Our trip to West Virginia and Kentucky during the first week was wonderful!! If I could have frozen time I'd stayed there a while longer, but I'm sure my niece was happy to have her room back. ( yes I did say that, as most people know that is really a rarity, I'm usually a wreck before and on occasion during this said trip) I thought maybe it was just a chance of attitude, but then a good friend had me re think that., I'd told her " I spent alot of my time reading my BIBLE" so then she asked along this line Was it the WORD and spending time with JESUS that bought me such peace or the chance of attitude, and I answered " I guess both. "

During the weekend of our return,we spent Saturday afternoon with another good friend Karen and my mom, though we all went to the fire department to visit her husband Phil it was more so a visit for Matthew, he loves firetrucks and he got to play bean bags (corn hole) also, his second favorite. I 'd say that child had a great day., the next day was Easter Sunday and again we spent time w/ my mom, brother and their families, and it was nice to be at our Church, and having Matthew take part in the Easter egg hunt. Sunday Evening there was a Easter Play at Church and everyone did an amazing job.

Matthew and I went on a field trip to a farm with the home schoolers from our church, He had a blast, he could so be a farm boy, he loves being outside and sure enjoys the animals.

Other than that, I guess we spent the remaining days doing the norm, and it sure did pass by
way to quickly. Hope everyone is well! I'm off to read my Bible and go to sleep, good night.

2009-03-29T15:09:00.004-06:00

Well here I am again with the monthly update, and an interesting month it has been. My computer had been been overheating, the mouse didn't want to work right and the keyboard stopped working to, those problems were easily curable, my hubby vacuumed out the computer and I bought an inexpensive mouse and new keyboard. We fixed it no so much for us but for Matthew, he really enjoys watching videos that are related to anything that does with his favorite characters and fire trucks. The girls got sick, Jackie had a virus and Amanda had an infected tooth so then there were doctor/ dentist visits to tend too but this past week takes the cake~ The car was broken down ~ something to do with the ignition which was fixed yesterday, so I had no transportation b/c Jr had my van, and to tell you the truth I didn't miss driving at all, the girls on the other did, Amanda walked to and from school, and Jackie got a ride or bought the bus home and I know they were sore and tired and for that I did feel a bit bad for them, but then again I was here at home, fighting a stomach virus or something similarly related, b/c I sure wasn't feeling up to par, was nauseated, had cramps , and was running a slight fever so needless to say I didn't accomplish much. This week I do hope things will be better, I've got lots of cleaning and packing to b/c come Friday we're off to West Virginia and I'm so looking forward to getting away. Well that should do it for now, I hope everyone has a great month.

Back on Track

2009-02-28T19:02:00.012-06:00

Yeah!! We're back on track, we on our doing took a detour and of course it threw off our schedule or should I say Matthews'. He was in the process of being potty trained and was doing a really great job but then we went away for a mini vacation to a water park/ hotel as we try to do something fun and family oriented each year for Valentines Day. This year though Jr. made a surprise stop, something he normally wouldn't do~~ It was to the Jelly Belly Factory. We did the tour, I won't say how that was, for I don't want to spoil it for those that might be going, but I did find some good deals in their store, and I never really realized how great those Jelly Belly's tasted, very yummy!, Okay, back to the original reason I'm writing. The days following our return home, He (Matt) had to get readjusted to the routine and thus had several accidents, but now We are back on track.

I'm still here !

2009-02-03T20:12:00.003-06:00

Hi blogging world , bet you were all still wondering if I still had the Internet. The answer is yes, but I hardly ever get to use it, the bigger and the mini computer monsters are usually here. I'd snuck in here sometime ago, because Matthew went to sleep early. I've been busy though and it wasn't exactly fun. I was in the search for some papers, documents and the like, and well lets just say I'm no way organized in that department or more importantly wasn't.
My husband and I have burned, shredded, and cut many many papers. The filling cabinet has nothing in it, the two totes are gone, and anything left over took 1 milk crate. It was a long, aggravating process and I'm glad its done. I've only been meaning to do it for the last 1 and 1/2 years, I've done countless pages on line for a personal matter, which I'm not going to worry about, I've given that to the Lord, and He will do as He sees fit. This week was the taxes, which I do myself, and now a few hours free time. I've also got some sorta good news, my weight is slowly going down, I've limited my salt and soda intake and just need to remind myself to leave the chips alone (hard). Wait! There's More...... Now the scary stuff....
Jackie has to pick her classes for sophomore year, and Driver's Ed is right there in black -n- White, I sure hope her daddy is ready..... because I'm not!! I remember those days like yesterday and driving w/ my mother was extremely hard, ( no wonder I waited several more years to get my license). Oh, okay to be truthful, I failed at all my previous attempts, but they were good years, I got plenty of exercise. Well I hate to go, b/c there is so much more to share but there will eventually be a next time. So til then take care and stay warm.

Family Christmas

2008-12-23T19:31:00.004-06:00

Merry Christmas, my family and I celebrated over the weekend. My brother informed me it has been since 1998 that we all have been together and what fun it was. We got to meet the newest little member and that was baby Morgan, see an old friend that I haven't seen in many ages and meet his daughters~ I hung out w/ his sisters, I practically lived there during the later elementary years ( Jr high know) and had lost touch w/ all of them. Cindy did an outstanding job w/ the food as usual, the older boys were as goofy as I remember but it was loving and fun. Matthew got the biggest box in the house, which I had been hopping wasn't going to one of my children. It was Elmo's restaurant and what fun it has been. It was so good to see my sister again, I've missed her and come tomorrow I'll have to miss her again since she and her family are going to Iowa and then back home to Arkansas. I've posted pics below , and I'm sure to blog again soon.

My family @ Christmas

2008-12-23T19:23:00.001-06:00

The Sones, Grosse, and church friends

2008-12-23T19:16:00.001-06:00

2008-12-12T21:19:00.004-06:00

This year we mixed things up a bit, we stayed home for Thanksgivng~ normally we would have been in West Virgina . It was a busy week of get togethers. On Thanksgiving Day we went to my brothers and the great thing is my other brother is stationed here in Illinois and he got to join us. and on that Saturday we went to my sister-in-laws. Tomarrow we will gather again with my family to celebrate a Special Birthday~ Paul is turning one! and Next Saturday will be very special indeed~ It will be the 1st time in a long while that we will all come toghether to celebrate Christmas. My sister and her family are coming home and this will be their first time at meeting the little guy and his mommy. We are all so excited!

Happy 1st Birthday Pauly!

? Amanda, Jackie & Matthew

On the day b4 Thanksgiving. We made a special trip to Lombard to visit Daddy on his work break.

These last few weeks have been somewhat fun, Matthew is talking more & more. The other day while we were lying in bed, ( me somewhat asleep) he told me "get up , I'm done in bed and I'm done sleeping". how cute is that? and when saw a picture of a pool He asked me where his swimsuit was b/c he wanted to go play~ now that took me by surprize! It's so nice he can communicate with me more~ sam = anything with a siren, flow= flavored milk just in case you ever hear him refer to those things but he usually is pretty clear on what he wants.

I just had to share that! Well I Hope everyone is doing good & staying warm. I'm off to bed . Good Night.

2008-11-04T20:25:00.003-06:00

Hi, figured I'd update while time allows. Where as before it was just the girls I was contending with, but Matt and Jr have taken a liking to playing& researching things on the computer as well, so I take my few short moments here and there to just play simple games. ~ Today though any computer time was limited~ It was to much of a beautiful day to waste. I took the children and my nephew to Isle la Cache for a picnic and to sight see and it was an added bonus b/c my nephew says he never has been there, and he loved it, we also stopped of at a couple parks to play so hopefully everyone sleeps well tonight. and I was a newbie to something to, I voted for the 1st time ever, and thankfully Jr made it home in time this year to vote as well. ~~
As to the last time I blogged, I've since had to take my digital camera in for repairs, and I'm extremely grateful that this time I had a warranty. and have found fairly good deals on disposable ones for the time being. ~~and I have other great news too, regarding two people we have been praying for, Bob ( my moms boyfriend ) is doing good strength wise , so far so good. and for Daven Edwards, who has that rare lung disease , he is doing really good, had the privilege of spending time w/ him and his family this past Friday evening, I've known of him and have met him but never have really talked w/ him. He is a really nice guy. Well that it'll do it for now~ hope everyone is having a good week.!

2008-10-16T06:09:00.001-06:00

This past Saturday was a real treat, My mom, my brother and his family came out to visit and boy was it a busy day. First we headed to an open house at the fire department, that didn't go as smooth as I had planned, Matthew was afraid of the fire trucks so we cut that visit short. Our next stop~ the pumpkin patch farm which the kids really enjoyed~ I too enjoyed myself but I really wasn't into it~ it was hot and very crowded, Matt wanted to ride the horses but the line was very very long so he settled on a train ride with Jackie and then home to a very yummy dinner which my husband had prepared, and to really visit w/ my guests. It was a good day in general and I couldn't be more thankful. (see photos below)

2008-10-16T06:03:00.001-06:00

Homecoming / Freshman year.

2008-09-29T18:57:00.014-06:00

Jackie above & below w/ her new do Doesn't she have a beautiful smile?great dress, great hair & a beautiful smile

I have to brag about how beautiful Jackie looked before I get to the actual posting, She was just stunning in her new dress w/ this hairdo all compliments of Grandma (Nana) . My mom went all out for Jackie's 1st homecoming dance and I'm so thankful for the bond they share.

I'm excited for Jackie, b/c she'd struggled some all through out elementary and Jr high years, and didn't make friends easily. Her & the girl friends she was reunited w/ have been busy, w/ going to the powder puff football game, the big dance and getting involved w/ clubs at school, she liked student council last year and is currently serving on freshman council, she hopes to play soft ball in the spring. Another reason I'm excited, she's involved and taking opportunities as they come.

Keep up the good work Jackie, I'm proud of you and love you.

Anniversary Sunday

2008-09-28T21:12:00.002-06:00

For all the aches and pains I feel tonight, today was well worth it and I wouldn't of changed a thing and staying with the theme of 7, I've listed 7 reasons why today was so good.........

1. Celebrating 7 years w/ Pastor Dave and the Fink Family
2. The message/ sermon on "Blind spots". ( I love learning new things).
3. The many talents of the Vorgin Family. ( from the bells to the singing to the musical chalk talk ~my 1st~ never knew anything like it existed) Thank you!! Vorgin Family.
4. Being used by God to assist a friend ( Janet)
5. great music ( to everyone in the choirs, and singing groups you were great & thank you)
6. making new friends, fellowshipping w/ the old ones and my family too.
7. excellent food . ( we're Baptist, do I need to say more?)

Congratulations Pastor Dave and Happy Anniversary!! You are the Best!!

Anniversary Picnic

2008-09-28T20:04:00.001-06:00

Getting to know you...

2008-09-26T20:53:00.006-06:00

I was tagged by Kris and now if you want to share about you, feel free to do so...

1. What is your favorite color?
I'd have to say blues & shades of brown
2. What you wanted to be when you grew up?'
a. there was a variety but the top are below....
b. a nurse, or caregiver to all the children I felt were unloved in my neighborhood.
c . an accountant
3. Your Favorite Food?
Mexican
4. How do you relax?
do sudoku puzzles, & if at all possible find a quiet place to close my eyes, and in some rare occasions clean.
5. If you won a million dollars what would you do?
pay off bills, educational expenses for children, move to a bigger house , take a once in a lifetime vacation.
6. Things I enjoy.. naps, spending time w/ family, puzzles, photography

7. What kind of formal education did you receive?
high school graduate
8. How many siblings do you have?

1 sister 2 brothers

What is the most important thing that has ever happened to you?

my adoption by my dad, marriage, having kids, day I got saved, and the many summers I was fortunate enough to spend w/ grandparents.

10. What is your favorite book of the Bible?

I can't pick just one

11. What is your life verse? I don't if they are life verses, but two that help me through are...

Ecclesiastes3 :1 " To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven" and Luke 1:37 " For with God nothing shall be impossible."

I think I might possibly post this also on ( My Space) and see if any one responds there., good night.

This & That

2008-09-23T19:31:00.002-06:00

Its only Tuesday ~ and a what week it has been. On Sunday we had the Todd and Grosse families over for an early dinner and for the annual Founders Day Parade~ and the best part we had front row seats~ it passes our house every year. It wasn't nearly as nice as last year, but still it was a good parade and perhaps the best part was spending the afternoon with friends. ( see photobucket post below). Matthews' favorite was of course the fire trucks, ( which he calls Sam from watching an old show Fireman Sam) I always enjoy the marching bands and the Jesse White tumblers while the children prefer to collect candy.

Then on Monday the girls stayed home from school for different reasons, and believe me it was a long day. Matthew got up at 4:30 am ( b/c he went to bed @ 6:00pm Sunday.), Jr was worn out and needed his rest, and someone ~ that would be me~ had to get Jackie to the doctor first thing to be looked at for some stomach pains she had been experiencing, then we were off to Quest for blood/ urine work to determine if she had an infection ( appendix perhaps), and that only made the day longer b/c she wasn't allowed to eat anything besides soup and liquids and I had to watch to make sure she didn't get solids. which brings me to today.......

Good news.......... She doesn't have an infection~ I won't have to sit through another appendix surgery nor have to worry about a sitter. We still aren't sure what the culprit is but the doctor recommended an over the counter medicine and that seemed to help alot, Amanda seems to be feeling better too w/ the aide of an antibiotics. and tomorrow they will return to school~ I'm relieved and thankful too~ God gave me the strength, the guidance I needed, and an answered payer for the well being of my children.

Founders day parade

2008-09-23T19:28:00.001-06:00

A DOGGONE ADVENTURE

2008-09-18T20:25:00.002-06:00

We had a escapee this week, who required a search party, a warden and even had to post bail!!. I'm talking about Duchess who was set free by none other than Matthew. He tried to tell us in what direction the pup had gone, and Amanda & I searched in the very little time we had. I resumed the search for about another hour or so, but no luck, so I called in the neighbors help who didn't have any luck either. The reason being, the dog went much further than any dog we have ever owned. Where I had limited my search to the big field that's close by and a few select neighbors, she was covering blocks east of here. I assumed she would return within a few hours and said a prayer for her and God did answer that prayer. I asked that she be safe and to return home , which she did. A good samartian found her and called the dog catcher b/c she doesn't yet have tags. Matt and I went and bailed her out mid afternoon and he was so happy! to have his pup home and kept watch over her for several hours and will continue telling us that tale about the day the doggie went bye-bye months from now! Lets just say we learned a lesson too, always keep the screen door locked.

Enjoying time w/ others

2008-09-06T20:17:00.007-06:00

It only took eight almost nine months for my husband to take me out and away as he had promised but the important thing is it finally happened. We stayed at the Embassy suites in Lombard and it was nice, there was a little river/creek whatever you call it running through the middle of the reception area complete w/ a fountain, waterfall and real fish~ cool!. we enjoyed a quiet lunch & dinner out and spending time together, as my mother watched my children. They had a fun day @ the zoo with their Nana and my brother Bill's family and got to see the new baby giraffe & in the evening got to bake cakes for the cake parade at church.

We really have been busy enjoying family this last month. We've spent several evenings at my brother-in-law's house getting to watch the romeo fest fire works, and just celebrated his and his wives 20Th wedding anniversary~ that was lots of fun. Last weekend we went to his sisters for a Labor Day gathering & Matt's kiddie version of bags came in real handy, he's already got a strong arm and good aim & in no time at all he'll be ready for the bigger boards.

This summer also bought time w/ other family members which I haven't seen in a couple years. My cousin hosted a gathering which was extra special b/c I got to spend time w/him, my mom & both my brothers & all their families. Which brings me to another special day & that would be.....

Today. It was great seeing, hearing, & spending time w/ friends. Everyone looked really nice, and that song" Chocolate Fever" was out of this world, though I didn't indulge in any, but considering it was a friendship tea, well let's just say I had more than enough and I'm surprised my bladder held. The skit the ladies did was really fantastic which I'm not surprised b/c who ever it might be at any given time always do an awesome job. Thank you Mrs. Julie, Mrs. Lapina and all the Ladies for another memorable day.

2008-09-06T20:15:00.001-06:00

the short and end of it.

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left~ Matthew & his race track he recieved 4 his 3rd birthday

center~ flowers I got 4 my birthday

right~ Matt& I after sharing a joint party together.

Hi everyone, thought I should take time to update b/c its been a while. Over the course of the last few weeks I've been to therapy for my knee and still going. In the beginning I had too to go twice a week but b/c I'm doing so well they let me skip one week and are requiring me to go once a week. I have noticed buying new shoes and watching my posture has made a big difference and perhaps losing quite a few lbs has contributed to it also.

Matthew & I celebrated our birthdays together, I turned the big 40 & Matthew turned 3. We both got some really nice gifts and it was nice to have the family and some dear friends over,

Theresa Ho came with her family, my dear friend Joanie came to surprise me~she recently moved out of town and Ron Ahrens came w/ his step son. I rarely see any of them anymore so it was a very special day.

And perhaps the greatest news, My brother has safely made it home and will be stationed at Great Lakes and I got to meet my new sister-in-law and my new nephew. She was really nice and the baby ( 7 months old) was just a really happy boy. They have never been to the states and I hope they adjust well to this new climate~ she has never seen snow and time will tell, He will be here for the next three years at least. I look forward to getting to know her a little better.

I've also been busy w/ other things, I went to closing day @ Camp Maverick. Special thanks to Renee Baker for driving us in my van, It was nice to get to know her a little better, and that place is really quite awesome w/ all the animal heads mounted and it was a really good sermon preached that day as well. I'm so glad I went. I also took my children to the Naperville River Walk~ every year is a different theme and this year dealt w/ garden things,

frogs and butterflies mainly. took some pictures but didn't like the way most turned out on the digital I was using, good thing I took a disposal camera ~ now to find it and get it developed.

well thats about it, so good night and have a wonderful week.

2008-06-30T18:20:00.004-06:00

It was an adventure but I was in time for the family reunion, I was against going at first and therefore missed my ride, but my sister-in-laws said the reunion would be on Sunday, so on Saturday evening I boarded an Amtrak and was on that train for 13 hours! It was very peaceful almost relaxing though for the next 5 hours or so after getting off I still felt like I was moving. The reunion took place as planned though a bit short lived~ after we all ate and was beginning to mingle a bit more~dark clouds came and almost everyone scurried to get everything back into bags and off the hill. I stayed up top assuming my husband was gonna drive me down, well he did eventually, about two hrs later after the nice refreshing rain storm on a tim roof~ ( he loves that sound), It was nice seeing all the nieces and nephews considering its the only time of year we get to do so. The rest of the week was okay, and I'm sorta glad to be back home. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

I've aslo began a sight on my space @http://www.myspace.com/kimberlyslone ~ there you'll find more pics in a day or so. hope everyone is well.

2008-06-11T11:49:00.002-06:00

Well ladies & gents it's been a while but times have been busy,w/ parties, holiday gatherings, pet parades, zoo visits and doctor appointments. For our 17Th wedding anniversary we celebrated Jackie's 8Th grade graduation instead, only time available this month, but it was special anyway for we had family over and good family friends, and Jackie had her guests, her friends from church so it all worked out. The actual graduation was Monday and it was very nice & Ashley Parker did an outstanding job on doing her hair and it was extra special b/c Ashley got to attend the ceremony too. (see pics below)................... and the best news for last, which I'm non to thrilled about, I've been having knee problems & the doctor said I'll have to do physical therapy b/c my joints are stiff, I guess I should be grateful b/c it doesn't require surgery, but it's still crazy that I start experiencing all these aches & pains as I approach my 40Th birthday.

Jackies' graduation

2008-06-11T09:17:00.001-06:00

The School Plays

2008-05-27T18:05:00.002-06:00

The fourth graders in Amanda's class did an outstanding job presenting their plays ~ half did one and the other half the other in:
"Play Ball, Cinderella!"
In which Cinderella had two good step sisters, and a fairy god father. Her only desire is to play baseball and in the end she is given permission to join the team.
Cinderella Outgrows the Glass Slipper"
Remember Haley (Amanda's little friend) she did an excellent job protaying Cinderella and she was quite the difficult one and had three god mothers because each of the prior ones returned to the agency as did the third one., her job description was making shoes and the royal palace ordered her shoes and of course everyone lives happily ever after.

I was very proud of all the children, they worked very hard!

The School Plays

2008-05-27T18:04:00.001-06:00

Mothers Day & Health Update

2008-05-15T20:25:00.005-06:00

Hi, hope all had a good Mothers Day, I did but to beat the rush, we celebrated Saturday. My family took me out to eat for lunch in the afternoon and come evening they surprised me with a new camera an 8.1 mega pixel that was used to take this photo. I still haven't quite got the hang of it, so what does this mother do? she goes to her oldest daughter who knows how to use it for a very quick lesson. and a couple days later relieve.

Why relieve you ask? A little over two weeks ago I started noticing some burning, and itching on my right shoulder which in turn was spreading to my armpit and then shooting some great pain into my breast which had swollen~ and that was the most uncomfortable feeling. I went to my doctor who I will assume thinks I'm crazy because she didn't see nothing wrong with my shoulder and sent me to get x-rayed. and guess what? it didn't show anything either. Come Thursday the pain was just about unbearable so I went to imediate care and they didn't find anything either on a chest x-ray but did send me away with prescrips~~ some pain med and a muscle relaxer and I'm elighted to say the swelling seems to be gone as is the burning. I still don't know what trigged it, the er doctor thinks maybe its a nerve root in my back, I go back to my doctor on Monday for follow up and we'll have to see where it goes from here~ maybe it was a fluxe or maybe she'll order more testing. All I know is I feel alot better and thank you to everyone who prayed for me.~~~ and please keep Sue Wright in your prayers, she was my childhood Sunday school and has been diagnosed with cancer~ she played such an important part of my growing up I hate to see her suffer, but regardless of her health she is still serving God, and taking care of her family and I find that admiral~ she was and still is a great role model to many. Thank You.

Mothers Day 2008

2008-05-15T20:13:00.001-06:00

More Camp Joy 2008

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2008-05-07T21:34:00.002-06:00

Hi Ladies, Wasn't Camp Joy fun? I had a good time as did my mother . There was no stopping us, regardless of the weather outside, but then again its always fun when we women come together, I gave another go at ping-pong just for the fun of it and even though I'm not really good at stamping up things I did an okay job, managed to make a few with Gerlinda's help and then others when my creativity finally kicked in. I had a great time fellowshipping with those that were near me. The ladies of Faith Baptist did a great job entertaining us and sharing their stories and as usual you don't know whether to laugh or cry. I always look forward to what might come next ~ a good time always guaranteed . just wanted to thank you all for another great year and many more to come.

Camp Joy

2008-05-07T21:32:00.001-06:00

Frames~ and several of them

2008-04-26T20:30:00.004-06:00

It's been sitting there~ behind the dresser collecting dust & little scratches nearly 2 yrs. this summer. But it finally made its transition to the wall. I'm talking a big picture frame that holds a variety of sizes 41 in all. It's something I bought several years ago to accommodate pictures of a large family that's still growing. Karen lovingly started it for me the same year I bought it but we never finished it. I had made myself a vow to have a picture of my newest family members up before they arrive for their visit and I've accomplished it. I didn't do it alone though.~ It was God who gave me the time & patience to finalize it and I'm so thankful ....and then there is the scanner~ I used it several times to make copies of the original and then windows to retrieve and fix ones I had installed from the digital and of course I have to mention freebies. I downloaded a free trial version of Pic Prints and there you can customize the sizes you need~ how cool is that? The biggest challenge was measuring the different sizes~ a ruler would have been nice but of course you can't never find one when you need it so I used one of those protector rulers and it wasn't to bad. I did however find out its alot easier to fit them on a flat surface than a mattress~ and then it was smooth sailing from there. I'm so excited that its done. Over the course of the last few years I've gotten lots of neat frames mainly as presents and I've been filling those as well and still have yet more to go . Its' deciding what pictures to use and well I went looking and couldn't find them~ so I'll have to try other places~ I know God will present them when he is ready and I'll be patient and will wait til then. It's getting late and I'm tired so to all of you ~ have a good night.

Just remembering

2008-04-16T20:58:00.005-06:00

Though it's been a week already since Pastor taught about "The Message of Hope" it has been has been tucking at my heart as I recall a girlfriend back in elementary school. Then I didn't know about Salvation but I did take her to my safe place~ A non denominational church I attended and the only person I thought understood and that was my Sunday School teacher and also my teacher at Awanas'. I took her maybe a couple times on Wednesday Nights~ She was safe, cared for and had know 3 caring friends if we include our Speech teacher. At that time I didn't know how she managed to get out of her house but now being older I know God had a hand in it. Her father was a very abusive man, he didn't allow her to change clothes daily & seldom allowed her to bathe and out of fear of being beat herself~ her mother never stood up for her~ If I remember she had a brother who was taken care of a tad bit better. We had an awesome speech teacher who helped w/ providing her a place to wash, food to eat and on occasion a change of clothes. The other kids would tease her and me often. They'd tease me for being her friend, I didn't care I was taught acceptance. Her outward appearance didn't matter, she was a human being just as we were and that's what counted. This is where "hope" comes in~ after several months which seemed like eternity ~ She and her sibling were removed and taken to a better place. She would not be allowed to stay in contact, or give her new name for safety sake~ I was sad but happy that she would be safe and that was hope enough for me. The End!!

How to I lost lbs and inches.

2008-04-14T18:16:00.005-06:00

Got ya, didn't I. The title isn't about losing body weight, but I do feel lighter. I visited Denise B. today and lets just say I indeed lost inches, not sure how many but there was lots, and lots of hair. I jokily suggested she go into the toupee making business b/c my hair would have easily made one . I don't recall the last time it was this short, if I remember right~ it has been years. You could say it took 2 attempts to get it the way I wanted. The first was good, but I had wings touching my face and it bothered me, so Denise kindly cut them away and it took nearly an hour for the whole process and I'm not joking. Why does it take so long? I tend to make cutting my hair a yearly thing. Thank You Denise for your time & patience!! and so far the children haven't told me I look like a boy and that's a good thing.

The Trip

2008-04-08T19:49:00.005-06:00

Well, we were surprised, but it wasn't to unfounded, every visit to West Virginia yields something new, and on this trip it was miniature goats. They were so cute and the standing one was a sly little fella. They were on occasion allowed to leave their yard and roam about the big yard but this particular one would crawl under the fence-needless to say he and his brother got returned to goat jail and I think it was perhaps him again, whom got really loud when Matthew offended them by calling them sheep~ you had to be there~ it was funny. I think I surprised many by going and I'm glad I did. I put in a little more physical activity than normal~ I'm a house person and well the rest of this family is outdoorsy, especially there. Amanda climbed trees, We flew kites and roamed about w/ the cows @ horses. Matthew loved those darn critters and even got us surrounded by them. I picked him up and made a beeline along a path by the fence to a picnic table until Junior came closer to them, yes I was a tad bit alarmed and at that point not exactly thrilled, but as you can see nothing happened, just another notch on the adventure belt. There are plenty more stories to share, but my assistant just arrived ( Matthew age 2) and well he likes to push buttons and I'm not taking a chance on losing this post~ so goodnight.

A refugees story.

2008-03-29T08:27:00.002-06:00

Hi, everyone. As you will see below, this was shared w/ me, It really touched my heart and therefore I wanted to share it w/ all of you. Take Care. Love, Kim.

Sis,
I receive many e-mails from our Command Chaplain. I think of you often especially after receiving the emails. The email below is true. He really was a refugee who escaped from a European Country. He has an impressive story. Well, I hope all is well with you. Be good. Bill

I grew up in the 60s with practical parents. A mother, God love her, who washed plastic bags and reused them. She was the original 'recycle queen', before they had a name for it... A father who was happier getting old shoes fixed than buying new ones. Their marriage was good, their goal was to raise decent children, - nothing more. Their best friends lived barely a wave away. Most of their relatives have died already either in the war or during the failed revolution. We never ate in a restaurant. We could afford meat once a month, but we thought that was normal. It was the time for fixing things. A curtain rod, the kitchen radio, screen door, the oven door, the hem in a dress , things we keep... It was a way of life, and as I got older, sometimes it made me crazy. All that re-fixing, eating left-overs, hand-down clothes... I wanted -- just once,-- to be wasteful! Waste meant affluence. Throwing things away meant you knew there would always be more. But then a colleague of mine disappeared, and my girlfriend got arrested, beaten, and raped. I was struck with the pain of learning that sometimes there isn't any more. All the time we have is now; we cannot dwell on the past, and we have no guarantees for the future. So, I left that God-forsaken country to become homeless, stateless, jobless, - a refugee. I lost my family, friends, culture, language, - everything, but I was free! Sometimes, what we care about most gets all used up and goes away...never to return. So... while we have it... it's best we love it.... and care for it... and fix it when it's broken...... and heal it when it's sick. Live each day as it were the last! This is true, for marriage... and old cars.... and children with bad report cards..... and dogs with bad hips.... and aging parents..... and grandparents. We keep them because they are worth it, because we are worth it.Serving you as I serve Him,Ch. A.P.S.People will forget what you said; they will forget what you did,but they will always remember how you made them feel.

Windows~~ and more Windows

2008-03-17T18:56:00.008-06:00

Hi, just wanted to share one of our newer computer toys, not the actual one but similar. It was a gift from a family member and its so cool. At first thought it was a key chain, but its an actual working mouse and we really like using it. As for the computer itself~lets just say PROBLEMS. I can still get to the Internet and the places I want to be~ its the windows itself that's not working. I did some sort of upgrade and didn't register it w/ the 30 days so now I've been informed that version has expired. I accept responsibility but how much money do they think its worth. It came w/ windows vista. I've contacted Microsoft multiply times & have talked to the various departments who then tell me to contact manufacture~ who won't help because the warranty has expired and they are only willing to help for the cost of $60~ all this run around has left one unhappy customer. I'm having my sister in law look at it and from there we will see what to do~ I'd personally prefer to just buy the upgrade through Best Buy if that's what it takes~ but only time will tell~ its not that it matters~we don't use windows often except to download pictures and school reports. It can wait. As we are on the subject of windows~ I have exciting news. Are you ready? I got brand new widows in the front room ~ and get this they can actually be opened & closed~ haven't had that in this room in the 15 years we lived here. Almost unbelievable~ had them opened a couple days ago when it was nice outside. The girls got new windows in their rooms also. It's nice to have ones that are easier to rise and that's a great advantage~ only disadvantage worrying if they are sealed and locked when we leave for long periods of time~ shouldn't be to concerned we live in a pretty safe area but one can't help to be safe~ crimes do happen everywhere. They will take getting used to ~ but when those nice little breezes come floating through during the upcoming days of spring and summer we'll be ready. I've got to be going ~ have a great evening.

2008-03-07T22:14:00.002-06:00

Hello!! Blogging buddies. Here to tell ya things are going fair. Last week was our Ladies Conference and I'm so glad I made the decision to go~ I of course proscrinated til the last minute. A little push from my doctor and Karen spending the night~ there would of been no way out. I really liked hearing the ladies give their testimonies~and I'm so proud of Karen~ she accomplished one of her greatest fears or perhaps two~ one being public speaking and to such a large crowd and two being the crowd itself. I was happy & surprised to see the other Kim and Joann. I had the privilege of sharing a table with Kim and getting to know her better and many other ladies as well. But to tell you honestly~ I didn't know if I'd survive the whole day. I had come down w/ the flu the prior Wednesday and was taking meds on a steady schedule b/c I was determined I was going to be there. The only thing I sort of resent~ I didn't really fellowship much as I'd liked~ I had worn Karen's shoes which were a bit tight and had a heal much higher than I'm used too because the new ones I bought were more than a tad bit to big and I didn't feel very comfortable running around in just stocking feet and I was extremely tired~ only slept maybe three hrs~ Matthew ad been up & down with a stomach ache and I was having an anxiety moment~ fearing I wouldn't be up in time to bathe and get ready. You'd think given the fact I knew I needed an outfit - I would of been prepared~ but no not me~ I left that to the very last minute only to discover I'd grown in the midsection and that my nice shirts weren't exactly roomy and flowing as previous years and the only other one that would of perhaps fitted I must of loaned it to my mom b/c its missing in action. Given all these small petty things~ I was was up and ready to go in plenty of time and had a great time. Thank you to all who participated in making it a wonderful day!!

The Buzzard, Bat & Bumblebee

2008-02-18T20:58:00.003-06:00

I just love receiving e-mails from anyone but those that are interesting & tend to put a different prepstective on things ~ I just have need to share. The following is from my brother:

BUZZARD

If you put a buzzard in a pen that is 6 feet by 8 feet and is entirely open at the top, the bird, in spite of its ability to fly, will be an absolute prisoner. The reason is that a buzzard always begins a flight from the ground with a run of 10 to 12 feet. Without space to run, as is its habit, it will not even attempt to fly, but will remain a prisoner for life in a small jail with no top.

BAT

The ordinary bat that flies around at night, are remarkably nimble creatures in the air, cannot take off from a level place. If it is placed on the floor or flat ground, all it can do is shuffle about helplessly and, no doubt, painfully, until it reaches some slight elevation from which it can throw itself into the air.

BUMBLEBEE
A bumblebee, if dropped into an open tumbler, will be there until it dies, unless it is taken out. It never sees the means of escape at the top, but persists in trying to find some way out through the sides near the bottom. It will seek a way where none exists, until it completely destroys itself.

PEOPLE ~In many ways, we are like the buzzard, the bat, and the bumblebee. We struggle about with all our problems and frustrations, never realizing that all we have to do is look up.

"All good things are from above..." [James]

Up & Running again

2008-02-17T22:41:00.004-06:00

I'm so excited. I've been having trouble with downloading pictures from memory chip, actual camera w/ proper cords and the like. It has been a fustrasting process. I did loose quite a few pictures in the process of trying to fix things~ I am glad on one hand for I saved many photos to discs~ but still there were others I didn't. I'll have to ask of those who had copies also. Anyway, I'm happy to report after rebooting, and re~installing different programs its up and running again. So I'll get to share pictures again~ yeah!!! Here are a few that I had planned to share back in Januarary~ but given computer problems~ now is a good time as ever.

Amanda & I at Round~up Sunday.

Paige & Matthew also @ round-up Sunday.

Breaking news!!

2008-02-11T19:33:00.000-06:00

There was a situation over the weekend concerning Bob Preston, that would be my mother's boyfriend. He was really sick, had all the works done to him, you know the tubes, put into a sleep and placed into ICU and etc. Things weren't at that time looking good. Well today is a new day! and I couldn't be happier for him. He was taken off the ventilator and got to eat- and will hopefully be moved soon to immediate care. I haven't been to see him~ I have a cold and besides only mom and immediate family were aloud in too see him- I've done what I could I called my extended family- I had them pray as well as myself. Why did I call the extended family? Bob spends alot of his time w/ us at family functions and is considered one of us. We will & have had our differences , but I'm so relieved he is doing better. Please pray for him~ as he will be in the hospital for a few more days. Thank you!

New exciting changes

2008-02-04T20:59:00.000-06:00

Its official I now have a new sister-in-law (Jane). and back in December She and my Brother Bill had a baby boy ( Paul Bennett) . I'm so happy for them and excited too that they gave the baby a family name- We had a wonderful fun loving uncle named Paul Bennett as well as a cousin with the same name and we lost them both over over the course of a couple of years~ so its indeed a special name. What I'm looking forward to is meeting them this summer. My brother is in the Navy- currently in Guam and come July they will be moving back to Illinois w/ him stationed out of Great Lakes. Great News! its only been about 3 years since we saw him last. I'll post pictures at a later time~ thats after I go copy them of his My Space. So what else is new?

I've just completed another two weeks of group therapy~ made a couple of medicine adjustments, and have started a new photo album ~ Its going to be my encouraging album~ An album w/ people who've made an impact in my life at one time or another~ and an accompaning poem that I've penned. Remember the Anniversary Picture taken at church? I used that pic as well as a copy from my Ist time at Camp Joy with my poem on "Friends". So far its turning out nice! The therapists and my doctor loved the idea.! Though not the greatest of pictures~ I plan on using those of me speaking @ church about Camp Joy- as a visual that I did overcome -& conquered that fear for that time being.

Well thats about it~ just wanted to update~ and tell everyone Hi and I'm doing okay.

A wonderful scene

2008-01-18T18:20:00.000-06:00

During this past week I'd had the opportunity to share my Bible with a fellow patient @the hospital. He desperately wanted to read the Word and went about inquiring the nurse station~ specially asking for the James version. I'd happened to overhear and asked him if he meant the King James Bible. He said yes and I sent him on his way w/ my copy. He was so happy and seemed a little more at peace. I'd planned on reading my Bible at every opportunity available so I called home and requested another copy. I placed it on the table in the eating area so that he could read @ anytime. What surprised me was how many of them picked it up and was actually reading the Word. Out of 7 of us 4 read a passage here and there. It was really nice to be able to talk about God w/ another christian. We also discussed outside support groups and how Church was a very good choice. I wouldn't be surprised if the counsellors read the Word while we were asleep. Most of the counsellors didn't seem to mind much about us talking God, The Word and religion. The same gentleman that I mentioned above even wrote a verse on the dry erase board and then here came a counsellor/ nurse who made him erase it. He used a verse w/ yoke in it~ and this lady just assumed he was being mean and told him that was not nice. Together we told her it's a biblical word found in the Bible and trying to prove us wrong~ she had to go on a definition hunt. A short while later she emerged and apologized for she had found other meanings of that word. I saw first hand how the Word had calmed and bought peace to those souls and how the Lord used me. I left that extra Bible knowing that God would use it to bring others hope , encouragement and love during these stages of trail & tribulations.

The mystery is over.

2008-01-05T17:27:00.000-06:00

As some of you know, I've been having some heal pain in my left for sometime~ the question most often asked Was did you hit it, step on something? and etc. Of course being the difficult one that I can sometimes be I didn't consult the doctor til the pain worsened and didn't take pain meds neither. Well worse came to worse til I began slightly limping and the pain was consistent both night & day. Today was the day that I finally got an answer! It was a bone spur as some of you had speculated & YES I did receive the cortisone shot~ Thanks to many of you who had warned me. What I wasn't prepared for ~ was the pain associated with it. I had a really cool doctor w/ a great sense of humor~ only rule not to kick him would have be quite difficult considering he had a good grip~ so I screamed loud with the accompanying ouch and begging for him to stop~ my lovely little Amanda thought it was funny~ making a sign teasing me w/ ha, ha times two. All was good and fun til the shot wore off about an hour later. For the time being I have foot exercises I need to do twice daily, wear temporary orthopedic in-soles, and take a prescription pain med twice daily as well. That I'm not crazy about and will take it only as needed~ I mean I did deal w/ some discomfort for the months leading up til now ~ so I have become some what tolerant to the associated symptoms. The other cool thing besides having a good doctor, was getting my feet fitted for the permanent in-soles with warm plaster which I'll get in 3 -4 weeks time. Please pray I do all that is recommended to get back on my feet . and yes for the time being I feel alright, still limping a tad bit but with a little more comfort~ the pain med is kicking in.

A Christian poem

2008-01-01T16:58:00.000-06:00

It is only a tiny rosebud,

A flower of God's design,

But I cannot unfold the petals

With these clumsy hands of mine.

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The secret of unfolding flowers

Is not known to such as I,

The flower God opens so sweetly,

In my hands would fade and die.

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I cannot unfold a rosebud,

This flower of God's design,

Then how can I have wisdom

To unfold this life of mine?

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So I'll trust Him for His leading

Each moment of every day

And I'll look to Him for His guidance

Each step of the pilgrim way.

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For the pathway that lies before me

My heavenly Father knows

I'll trust Him to unfold the moments

Just as He unfolds the rose.

~Anonymous

( I happened to find this and several others @ http://www.maxpages.com/heavenlyplace/Inspirational_Sayings. They have a great assortment of different christian stuff. I liked this poem though. I'd just thought I'd share.)

I love these pictures.

2008-01-01T12:57:00.000-06:00

left~ my silly son found a new use for tinsel! doesn't he look cute?

right~ some foam soap and a wild sense of imagination makes Amanda a jolly character indeed.

Jackie's 14th birthday guests

2008-01-01T12:55:00.001-06:00

Jackie's 14th Birthday

2008-01-01T12:15:00.001-06:00

It was Jackie's 14th birthday on Sunday and what made this year so special? Her friends (Ashley, Skyla, & Tabitha) got to come home w/us to celebrate. It was a good time w/ friends and family.She got lots of cool gifts and of course money. From an Aunt she got a heirloom. Her paternal grandmas' ring ( she
keeps it for a certain length of time and passes it on.) With the money, she picked out a really, really nice digital camera in green-can do all kinds of cool things right there at her finger tips. I think everyone had a good time and we enjoyed having them. So to all who played a part in making her birthday special. A big, big Thank You.

Good deals & fun.

2007-12-28T08:46:00.000-06:00

I don't know what I did right this year but I've must of done something. I went out shopping for after Christmas deals and that's exactly what I got~ great deals. First It was walmart~ I was looking for a blow up, preferably a train or globe. A little pricey I decided on a smaller cheaper illuminated train, next thing I knew The sales guy asked if I was interested in the last big blow up train which my children were eyeing- of course I said yes. He gave it to me for $50 a very considerable and generous discount. I didn't have to reel , deal or anything. Very cool.!

I was also in the market for some new ornaments, had to replace some because my wonderful dog took it upon her self to chew them up~ or Matthew thought they were balls. Long story short Amanda picked out some really pretty- soft ribbon ones , we got pink and green ones.

The Last great deal came last night, A while ago my cell phone stopped working and I needed to replace it~ our server out of kindness and respect decided to give us the up grade fee. That not only surprised us~ but the store employees. They didn't have the one I needed and didn't know when they would get them in- so I asked about the camera phone~ they had them in stock and the manager said we could split the cost 50/50. I felt bad, but he reassured me it was okay, so I went ahead and purchased it in red. Like I said I don't why any of these people approached me about such great deals~but I'm glad they did, it had to be God working in us all. I can only imagine what 2008 will bring for each and everyone....So to all my friends and family .....Have a Happy New Year.

2007-12-08T21:49:00.000-06:00

Hi, blogging world me once again. I want to begin by sharing this Christmas card with you from my sister-in-law it says the following:

Search no longer for the perfect Christmas gift

it has already been given to us all.

His name is JESUS

the inside: The best of all blessing is ours- rejoice
of course every year we get lots of great cards but this card grabs your attention.

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I'm here again with several reasons, one to update my blog ~ it has been a challenge considering Matthew thinks he needs to be in front of the monitor, or pushing the buttons or playing w/ the mouse. Like I said its been hard and come the evening the girls want a turn and usually I'm to tired or too busy. I have been far more active these days, I like to stay busy gives me a better reason to sleep through the night and stay sane. (lol). I've also been reading a really great book " TO Rejoice Is a Choice" by Dr. Jack Schaap. It talks about Joy. How to find it, get and keep it. It also talks about how we lose it by choosing joy robbers. He covers a wide range even using his own personal live as an example. I found it was very encouraging and helpful so far,~ I've still a few chapters to go. I've been reading lots of christian books and I've come to really like the approach of Dr. Schaap- Biblical truths involving biblical characters and they are so explanatory. He has written lots of book- This happens to be my second book- the first book was " Healing the Inner Hurts" another great title. Well thats about it for me.

I have a considerable large area I can't seem to elimanate and I've tried hard to fix it so what was supposed to a wish for you all is here:

Wishing you all

Safety & Warmth

During the Winter

& Always.

Family

2007-11-28T22:48:00.001-06:00

Family

2007-11-26T20:47:00.001-06:00

We had a great time in West Virginia, On a personal level I think it was probably one of the nicer trips that I've had in a long time, mentally speaking of course. I would say we all relaxed just a tad bit more than usual and even socialized a bit more. This year we had the privilege of spending extra time w/ the littlest of nieces & nephews-all so adorable, energetic and photogenic- lots of noise but well worth it. We, the adults played different games and that was lots of fun. We did dinner w/ his brother's family Thursday, and On Friday w/ his sisters, and the same brother at his sister's house. Can you believe I actually lost one pound after big meals like these? I kept simple portions, eating for energy not to over stuff myself. I hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving filled w/ love and family. Take Care.

Golden Arches Around The World

2007-11-18T23:30:00.001-06:00

A very creative child.

2007-11-18T19:20:00.000-06:00

I'm very proud of Amanda, who is in the fourth grade now. The teachers have been encouraging them (students) to be more creative. They have already done a project related to science, social studies and art in general- and all the children have done a fascinating job. Just today they show cased a variety of the best works that had won the Young Artist Award @ a Barnes & Noble store in Bolingbrook, and there was also a book fair that gave back 10% to the school.
Amanda's foil ballerina, that was a young artist award winner.( 4Th graders had to do a sculpture relating to a sport)

I liked this picture for the crazy hair. ( it was done by Kevin, don't know him or what grade he's in , I just enjoyed it.)

the gymnast, done by Brittany.

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Jackie had been busy creating as well, Her class/team was in charge of making origami jumping frogs and name cards in a different language for multi-culture night. and I just wanted to say I'm glad she had this experience and I'm proud of her.

2007-11-17T19:24:00.000-06:00

Wednesday Nov. 14/2007 The children & I went to a multi-culture night @ Jackie's school. I felt bad we didn't attend church, but this was the first time in the 9 yrs I've been in this school district that they have offered anything of this magnitude. Each continent was represented and the 6Th-8Th grade students did an incredible job as did the performers. It was a really planned out w/ an assortment of things to do. A book fair, Area restaurants offered an assortment of foods to try. I'm not talking just samples, they were very generous. Matthew couldn't get enough of the Chinese rice dish and they even let me bring him home some. They had different performers in the auditorium, and the continents on display in the gym. They had the clothes, instruments and other odds & ends. A very nice evening to say the least, this picture ( originally a 5 by 7) was a freebie, courtesy of the school as a thank you for attending. Something I just wanted to share.

2007-11-17T00:07:00.000-06:00

Hi everyone, Just wanted to share this w/ you. It was engraved on a stone along the Mississippi River when I was coming home from Ohio this past July. Enjoy!!

An Interesting Book

2007-11-12T18:43:00.000-06:00

Hi, Sorry I haven't blogged ~ it seems like its been forever. I just didn't have much to say. In between doing the normal household stuff and feeling a bit under the weather myself. Plus the computer seems to be running a bit slow these days~ it has its moments. I've also been reading an interesting book. " Believe In The God Who Believes In You" . By Robert H. Schuller. Its a rather thick book only 297 pages. The beginning is just intro stuff but each chapter is based on a different commandment. At first I had a hard time getting into it. He asks lots of questions then sometimes leaves the answers unknown to the end of the chapter.
I like many of the sayings he states in big outlined yellow squares. I'll share some.

" Money gives you the dubious luxury of choosing from among even more distractions.
" Enthusiasm, self- confidence, faith in God, love, are all contagious, and you can help spread them"
" Take the time and cultivate the patience to choose positive, forceful words that will uplift yourself & others"
" Christ honored the name of God by restoring lost honor to lost souls"
" When you think you've exhausted all possibilities, remember this: You haven't."
" Set aside regular times to draw close to the God who believes in You."
These were just a handful and there are many, many more throughout the whole book. Of course the title speaks for itself. The main message the author wants to share and is do doubt true: That God cares, believes, loves,knows, and is always there for each of us. In two different chapters he gives little quizzes~ Chapter 1's is a questioner about who really believes , trusts, and loves you ~ even @ your worse. Answer #1 is God. and of course there are others I can think of. Chapter 9 isn't so much a quiz but describes people whom we tend to respect and helps to make us a more positive person. I know I've only gotten to where I am~ because the good Lord cares and has led me and has provided me with some wonderful encouraging friends whom have helped to me to become a better person. So to all of you~ THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU.

2007-11-02T21:55:00.000-06:00

( Oct. 27th 2007)

The Slone family @ Konow's Pumpkin Patch.

Well what can I say~ its been an interesting week. We started out last Saturday going soul winning followed by a day spent as a family with our church family at a local pumpkin patch, it was lots of fun and the weather wasn't to bad either. It was the days that followed that things took a turn for the not so good. Before we even thought about leaving the activities

Matthew went into a screaming rampage- still not quite sure what that was all about~ lots of tears, lots of nasal discharge. For safety sake and not wanting to get all the nursery children sick we kept him home. I went to church Sunday morning while my husband did the evening service. Monday day wasn't to bad but come Monday evening Jackie came down with the flu and was home the rest of the week, Tuesday was manageable and Wednesday the other two children came down sick. As one can imagine Thursday was not a productive day~ Matthew was highly clingy and was attached to my hip, shoulder and just about everywhere else~ he just had to be touching me. Come 9 o'clock when daddy came home~ I had to do something and fast. I went nuts cleaning and disinfecting everything and by midnight I was tired out but content with the fact I had done something productive. I'm not saying it was easy and that I didn't lose my temper. I did get testy~but I didn't totally lose it. Why? I had God on my side and at this moment of time he wanted me to be a caring, loving comforting mom to a sick child. Now here we are today and all three children were home again, the early morning was a breeze for daddy was home but come this afternoon I was beside myself, The clinging returned and I wasn't so sure what to do with the evening plans. Thank the Lord Matthew took a long nap and I was able to sit and soak in a nice warm tub~ which really was re- freshing. My mom came out~ and I was able to attend " Spiritual Gifts" the theme for this months Ladies ministry @ GBC. Very interesting! and I'll possibly post more about that at a later time. I'm happy that I went and was able to fellowship and learn new things and that this very long week will soon come to an end~ It wasn't bad but a bit more than I'm used too.

So too all my friends~ Have a healthy happy week and talk to you soon.

A week of exercise & animals.

2007-10-26T18:51:00.000-06:00

I've made this comment before on many occasions and I'm sure to use it again "I've done enough walking (exercise) to do me for the next 6months to a yr." Okay, so I exaggerate a tad bit. I really did enjoy the Little Red School House and the fellowship, and even survived the mile hike. The weather was just right out on the trail and with some help from friends, Matthew and the stroller made it safely to the end. ( Thank you Gina, James & Tyler.) I was quite surprised Matt actually sat that long~ normally he'd be going, going, and......... Hewas so excited with seeing the fish on display and kept saying" fishy, fishy". What struck me as interesting was this image I'm about to share. Its different? wouldn't you say? Its been years since I've visited there, and sadly to say The trails that wrap around the lake were closed. but it was still beautiful.

Today on the other hand, my little stroll wasn't planned for Karen & I were preparing to leave for Denise's and haircuts. But my visiting guest ( Eddie) and my very own (Duchess) took it on themselves to go for a walk or should I say run. Thankfully the corner house has big dogs (fenced in) and they kept these two escape artists busy til I caught up w/ them. Well tomorrow is the Pumpkin patch activity that we've all been looking forward too so I predict more fun exercise in my near future~ but come next week I'll either be tired or charged and ready to go. Only time will tell. Til we talk again Take Care.

Family @ the zoo

2007-10-20T20:18:00.001-06:00

A day @ the zoo

2007-10-20T19:19:00.001-06:00

A nice day out calls for a family outing to the zoo. My family & I along w/ my mom and her boyfriend Bob & our little friend Haley. There must have been something in the air, for most of the animals were very active today as were the vast crowd of children and adults alike. It was also boo & the zoo and many came dressed as characters. A little girl had one of the most orginal I've ever seen. A double layered Birthday cake and her hair piece was the topper complete w/ candle~ so cute!!! After getting more than enough excerise~ we all headed back to my mom's for a KFC luncheon and that hit the spot. It was a fun and complete day~ and one that is sure to gaurtee a goods night sleep. Hope each of you have a good night as well.

Awesome animal pics

2007-10-20T19:16:00.001-06:00

Photos

2007-10-12T18:33:00.000-06:00

Our puppy Duchess, who is about 5 months old. She's quite the character-and is really good w/ Matthew. She's had two play dates this week- her sister Snickers lives across the street and we got them together on Wednesday and Eddie came over today. always lots of fun to see the doggies interact
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Well friends, if you haven't guessed from the above pics- I purchased my family a digital camera- I would've simply used disposal but I have a bad habit of sticking them in drawers and never getting them developed- so I call it a good investment.
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On the health front, I recently downsized my meds- for all it's worth the Seroquel is working but I can't handle the 250Mg's. The doctor increased it to this on Monday and by Wednesday night I was seriously on edge- to put it mildly. They say the ideal dose is 300Mg's.- but for whatever reason its having the opposite effects on me. I'm continuing with my mid-afternoon dose and the original 150 at bedtime. ( the dosage that works- for me to keep my sanity.) I have an appointment in 1 and 1/2 weeks. We'll see what he says- he might even suggest new meds- but like the doc says "he works 4 me" so it'll be my call. I say I'm good right where I'm at so why alter it. Well ladies & gents I'm off to see other blogs and I hope everyone has a great evening.

"LOVE"

2007-10-10T20:57:00.000-06:00

I sit here trying to figure out what poem I'd like to share next and this one, which I wrote back in March of 1989 seemed to be speaking volumes to me- so here goes.

LOVE

Love is hate / Love is wonderful

Love is something & sometimes inseparable

Love is made up of good times &

bad times too, but if it's meant to be then it can be seen through.

It's sometimes confusing & sometimes easy to understand

just depends on which & why consequences stand.

Everyone has a different meaning or two,

but my definition is as seen:

A mixture of trust, security & understanding

Love is like a combination lock , it can sometimes be picked at &

stolen right before your eyes, if you don't watch what you do

some locks are strong & endurable & lasts forever it seems

some do & others don't, but the only way to figure it out

is to stick by & give it a chance.

A loving relationship starts w/ a like & continues up the ladder

every moment you spend together, mystery add the spice

when your likes & hobbies differ, because there is a challenge

awaiting you, a chance to do something new or better yet

when you don't have a clue as to what your gonna do

Love is an experience that you'll want to take on &

challenge with all your might because one day

you'll get involved with that special someone

that will be your partner for life

so play the field & do it safely

for there is always someone awaiting you.

A poem

2007-10-06T20:20:00.000-06:00

I wrote this little poem many years ago, and though I'm big on the believe of accepting all others in this world ~ I sometimes struggle w/ accepting myself and in penning this I think perhaps I was trying to get in touch w/ my inner self , though I wasn't saved nor married at the time I think God was speaking to me, even then that He had a plan, but the first step was actually believing in myself . I have over the years changed the title several times, but the concept has been altered. So bear w/ me as I attempt to share ~ for I know there are many out there that can relate- and after all it did come from the heart.

FRIEND

I have a good friend called she

She is the closet friend I've got

She is alot like me, in many ways

& specializes in talk, which some-

times appears to be non stop

She comes from a place called

inner, a destination well known

to all

~~~~~~~~

She needs a little self confidence

a little style to make her glare

& a more positive attitude to show

that she really does care

~~~~~~~

She is a dreamer, a poet too

a good friend to all & that's why

I choose her to be a friend of mine

& we always seem to get along fine

~~~~~~~~

When we disagree, I feel like I should

cry, b/cause its not good for her nor

me to get into a fight, because pals

are what we are & that's how it will always

be, until the day we part, and that will never

be because she and me are we.

Kim R.

2007-09-22T20:31:00.000-06:00

Hi there again, sorry about the long absence. It's been a crazy few weeks and I'm writing to let you all know I'm good. This past & prior Thursday I was beginning to think I was in grade school again- I had to go for psychological testing and do all sorts of goofy activities- play w/ blocks, look at puzzles and fill in the missing rotation, take a true/ false test ( only 563 questions) make up stories to picture art , and finish writing complete sentences (51) and my all time favorites : definitions and similarities (lol) I even had to take some crazy computer test ( hit the mouse once when hearing or seeing 1) . I couldn't resist the urge to ask the attending doctor " Are you trying to figure out my mind or test my patience?" That got a good chuckle. Anyway that's over and done (yeah!!!) and the final results will in this coming week- It was just a matter of getting me a final diagnosis( mood disorder) but which one. I've also officially completed the sleep study, went overnight yesterday and though I was attached to all kinds of wires, it was quite comfortable. The tech was very nice and the room was gorgeous. Oh, I decided to save the best for last- the doctor recommended ground flax seed, apparently I have a slight case of too much bad cholesterol and suggested I go on a diet, I've tried it and it's nasty- I think I'll split the 2-3 tsps over the coarse of the day - but I have improved my water drinking habits and try to take a small walk down or around the block.
I'm beginning to feel a little more like myself w/ each passing day so here's to a great week for you and me. Take Care.

Health Update

2007-09-08T20:35:00.000-06:00

Hi friends & family it has been a while and I'm happy to say I'm feeling better. Those mood swings that I had talked about recently has nothing to do with hormones for they were in a normal range. So what is it that attributed to my sadness, crying spells and self doubt? A chemical imbalance. Was I surprised? not one bit since I suspected it along. I knew what I had to do ~it was the matter of not wanting to see a particular group of doctors that kept me from seeking that help. Well I have great news~ Another location opened which is run by a totally different association and I couldn't be happier. The doctors are so much more thorough and look at all the symptoms from all angles. I went on Wednesday for an across the board blood test and they are recommending a sleep test but that will require the family doc's permission and an okay from our insurance and I'll be looking for that hopefully in the near future. I have just completed 4 days of group therapy and have to have my final schedule by Monday. Not neccesiarly a schedule but a final decision on whether I'll do all week or just the three days- Did I forget to mention its a two week coarse? I still have to iron out the details of you will be watching Matthew and when. Well the med I now take for a mood disorder is taking effect and It makes me tired and I sure don't want to fall asleep sitting here so I've got to get going. I wish each of you a great week.

2007-08-27T21:16:00.000-06:00

Monday ~Wash Day ~ Lord, help me wash away all my selfishness and vanity, so I may serve you with perfect humility through the week ahead.
Tuesday ~ Ironing Day ~ Dear Lord, help me iron out all the wrinkles of prejudice I have collected through the years so that I may see the beauty in others.
Wednesday ~Mending Day ~ O God, help me mend my ways so I will not set a bad example for others.
Thursday ~Cleaning Day~ Lord Jesus, help me to dust out all the many faults I have been hiding in the secret corners of my heart.
Friday~ Shopping Day~ O God, give me the grace to shop wisely so I may purchase eternal happiness for myself and all others in
need of love.
Saturday~ Cooking Day~ Help me, my Savior, to brew a big kettle of brotherly love and serve it with clean, sweet bread of human kindness.
Sunday ~ The Lord's Day ~O God, I have prepared my house for you. Please come into my heart so I may spend the day and the rest of my life in your presence.

( This was an e-mail sent by my mother- I thought it was so beautiful and just couldn't resist the urge to share another thoughtful prayer.) So enjoy!!

No News

2007-08-24T22:19:00.000-06:00

It's been officially one week and I don't know if that's good or bad news. I was expecting a call, note, or e-mail informing me of my test results. Well you guessed it- nothing. I called of course at the height of the storm yesterday- moments before a tornado was spotted there in Bolingbrook. I can't blame them for something Mother Nature did. I fully understand given the weather- but to make me wait yet another day. I even called twice today- first call left a message second time they were closed. It's not just one day though~ but another entire weekend. I guess I've waited this long whats another couple days. So what I'm saying is no news is good news-at least I hope. Hopefully that call will come Monday at the latest- for I would really like to know how , if any of my temperamental mood swings here of late can be fully blamed on hormones- or could it even be that the depression is back at full throttle. All I know is I need answers sooner than later. I'll keep you informed- until then take care.

Mishaps @ The Todd's

2007-08-24T22:05:00.000-06:00

Well, given the weather here lately and all that rain- The Todd family has relocated for the time being to The Lindahl's . They lost power Thursday night @10.30pm and haven't been given an exact time or date when it might be restored. It could be anytime between now and Sunday. They are very thankful and feel very blessed for having such good friends. When Kris is able she will do a post.

A simple Thank You!!

2007-08-20T20:35:00.000-06:00

I just wanted to thank you all for your prayers- my physical went much smoother than I anticipated - It only took 2 attempts to get examined and was over in no time at all. I had a nurse practioner who was very nice and gentle which was a big blessing. I also had blood taken to check my hormone levels and will have to make an appointment for a mammogram and more blood tests which I'll have to fast for. I should be getting the test results back this week -if everything comes back good. I'll keep you updated. Have a good few days and look for an update on what my hubby did while I was away.

Trip Highlights

2007-08-20T17:30:00.000-06:00

We'll were home again and I couldn't be happier. It was a nice time away with the highlight being the anniversary party itself. Nothing like a 50TH being celebrated in 102 degree heat. And let me tell you - the kids and there were many put a new spin on tarred & feathered. They found out the fountain not only had a spicket for drinking- but an attachment below for filling perhaps buckets. Next thing you know - they were filling cups, bottles whatever they had at their disposal to relief themselves, for the littlest ones had made a big muddy pool and had no intention of moving. After they were good and soaked (myself included- for I let my kids pour water all over me) we ended up at the playground and it seemed to be padded with Hay, dead grass - whatever. All I know it was soft, messy and stuck to you like glue. I wore black and put Matt in white and light blue, which was a big mistake because it took many washings to get those clothes clean- and lets just say his shirt will never be the same again.

It was just as nice to see a good majority of my cousins show up- many of whom I haven't seen in years- and when the girls had asked who they were playing with- and I said cousins in some shape or form- they couldn't believe their ears. It bought back so many good memories to see some- The one that stands out most- Larry. Though he is older- he always was lots of fun to see and used to pick on me whenever we visited. We even had cousins show up from my dads side which was really cool- many knew of each other- they just didn't realize they both had the same Aunt Linda. I'd say with little ones included there were about 50-100 people and enough meat to feed an even larger army because though it was a very good turn out not all the guests showed up. The Decorations were kept simple - they had the children make posters and the adults tape pictures to them- It seemed if some were just taken yesterday- when in fact it has been 20+ years. I happily snatched the one I found of my brother, father and I. The important thing is my aunt and uncle enjoyed themselves and that's really all that matters.

I'm off to.....

2007-08-15T14:35:00.000-06:00

Missouri again.. this time for a special anniversary celebration. My uncle and Aunt have been married for ever it seems and I'm sure to have fun... giving what nuts we all are- and it has been years since I've seen some of of my cousins and friends of the family~~ I just hope they've all been invited and will attend. My siblings and I have reserved rooms at the hotel - and each of us are bringing our own families. I'll be minus one_ the hubby is staying home. We leave tomorrow after my doctor's appointment- It should prove interesting- 3 adults 3 children and it has been many years since I've actually traveled with my mom. I know we are alot alike in many ways- but when it comes to driving - lets just say we have a difference of oppion- We are going to let Bob drive!! I still haven't found my digital so I'll have to resort to the good ole disposable cameras. - and when I get them developed I'll share . So to each of you Have a Great Weekend.

On the Home Front

2007-08-07T22:26:00.000-06:00

I had a wonderful visit w/ our family who is visiting from West Virginia. They spent the night last night all 5 of them and it was really great just to spend that little alone time catching up. My hubby made an assortment of dishes - enough to feed an army and we ate to our hearts content. The corn- on -the -cob that The Solatka's gave away - was a really big hit and yummy- as was the fried potatoes. We visited well into the late evening and that's where the fun began. Where was everyone going to sleep? They eventually left the decision up to me- and out of habit I put Matthew in our bed. They took the living room- which in my mind was a very smart move considering its the coolest room in the house. Though they left early this morning- the fun carried over til tonight. The majority of us got together again - and boy did we have some great laughs covering all sorts of things. They of course were quite puzzled- between my behavior over the weekend and today. Lets just say I wasn't in the grandest of moods then as I was today- and being one who doesn't always pick -up on a persons body language it apparently makes a big difference. Obviously the happy - calmer me wins hands down-and here lately she has been in hiding.

On a sad note Jackie didn't really get to visit as much as she'd like. We gave her Sunday off to visit and to enjoy the company. She joined her school's softball league- and this week has been busy. On Saturday alone- she had two games and that took almost all day. She played yesterday, today and has another one tomorrow. The good news is she is excited - they won the last two games.

I'd better be going. didn't realize it was so late and I hear a storm a brewing and that means the computer has to go off. So goodnight!!

What's New?

2007-08-06T22:28:00.000-06:00

I ask this because I've added several new things to my home. For starters I got a new puppy- named Duchess- only 11 weeks old. This will be the first time ever that I will have to train a dog from scratch as I'm used to older dogs already house broken. Why? We got her where as Matthew could grow with her. She might be adorable buts it all the surprises she has left me these first 24hrs.- that I'm not crazy about. We got her a cage and will have to work on this task.

I've also recently purchased a bed-in-a-bag all patriotic colors. It was a great deal and the price was right considering I have a king size bed. And the much dreaded news- I say dreaded because I'm not really keen on it- A physical. I've never been big on anything other than being poked w/ a needle. So this will be interesting! I'll go Aug. 16Th and try my best to be a good girl- no promises. I know its due time since I've avoided this topic for far to long. I made a promise I'd go and I will keep my word. But before I go off to sleep- I just want to thank everyone for all their prayers and encouraging words.

P.s. There will be no pics for a while- seems like I have a camera bandit on my hands or they grew legs and walked off (lol) I mean seriously I have two of them. I hope to eventually find one or both where I can show off at least my dog!!

Crazy days.

2007-08-04T08:29:00.001-06:00

Romeo Fest is here. It actually started Wednesday but we went Thursday night. It was wrist band night @ $15 each and you rode from 5pm-10pm. A great deal!! The girls got their money worth- but Matthew on the other hand didn't want anything to do w/ the rides this year. We walked around, watched the girls , and grabbed a bite. He heard me say fries and just started chanting "fies" and I couldn't resist but buying them. It all worked out a little latter- Daddy showed up and Matthew rode for him w/ a big smile. ( that child does a great job confusing me) smile for Daddy scream for Mommy what's that all about? About 8 pm. Daddy bought Matt and Jackie home- and I stayed w/ Amanda til closing. Though we did have fun - I was a little disappointed with ride selection. They didn't have much of anything for little ones and what they did have was put near the grass. I'm thinking next year they should call it Romeo/ Mosquito fest. The fest for the people and a feast for those pests. (Okay enough ranting Kimberly)

Anyway- I went for the same purpose I do every year. To chat w/ acquaintances that I hardly see through the summer months. Always lots of fun!! and to get exercise. It was a good size walk from the rides to the food vendors/sponsor tents. I did this walk 4 times. ( twice if you count back and forth) let me tell you!! That first trip had to count as a work out. The combination of the heat and carrying 20+ plus lbs on either hip or shoulder has to merit some title. ( I confess I didn't carry Matt the whole time but was walking fast anyway to catch up w/ him) and he led me to a great deal . The ROTC was selling pop @1.25 ea.- the big bottles and that was the best soda deal there.

So if any of you are interested and like fireworks- There is going to be a fireworks show this Sunday evening at 9:15 pm @ the Romeo Recreation Center on 135Th St. Til then have fun!!

2007-07-30T07:20:00.000-06:00

I don't really have anything to say but I am excited that my brother Bill and I finally exchanged e-mails. I'm doing family photos instead of words. have a great week.

The children down by the Mississippi River on the Illinois/ Iowa border last weekend.

some photos from the zoo back on June 19Th.

Did you Know?

2007-07-23T20:33:00.000-06:00

Were we ever excited this July 18Th when we arrived at Cantingy Park. It just happened to be a Wednesday that they- meaning men in trade-mark uniforms were on hand showing all their equipment. It was really cool- the boys got to try on war helmets and back packs, throw empty hand grenades, and they even had to pretend they were behind a wall, looking quickly for enemies, then aim for a roped off area that was suppose to be Bin Laden. It was fun and my nephews had a great time. They also got more hands-on action (see pics below). They had almost everything imaginable that was used during World War times- from guns- to what the first aid people carried and used. Very informative. I never knew that there were different grenades - color coded for use for an assortment of things. This color for a smoke screen, that color to just blow up equipment, and so on. There were several and I can't possibly remember everything. all I know - it was just interesting and fun. A great day of exercise and learning. I think - they will be there again on August 1st . They even said " every other Wednesday during the summer months and if I'm not mistaken- that's still the season.
So if you get the chance- try going for a visit. Only flaw- Matthew was to little, and that equipment was heavy- the helmet alone probably weighed a good ten lbs. alone but he did enjoy watching his cousins have a good time.

Cantingy park hands on fun

2007-07-23T20:32:00.001-06:00

Fun in the sun!!

2007-07-21T15:12:00.000-06:00

This past Wednesday I took my children and my two nephews that are visiting from Arkansas to Cantigny park. We had a good time enjoying the beautiful gardens, and Matthew got super dirty. He was muddy and proud of it. It was specially created for the children in mind- hence the Children's idea garden. We even got to lounge around in the shade next to the main garden. It had furniture and tables amid all the pretty flowers and you could even see the garden lake, it had a major size canopy,you could even say it was a building without walls. We did the gazebo thing too for it was next to a small waterfall- and I love waterfalls. I was so thankful that the boys enjoyed it, for most boys think gardens are girlish. See photos below and I hope you enjoy.

Cantingy park gardens

2007-07-21T15:09:00.000-06:00

An unforgetable birthday!!

2007-07-16T21:49:00.000-06:00

My birthday was Friday the 13Th and it was unforgettable. Mrs. Kris and Mrs. Linda threw me a surprise birthday luncheon. They had a rather large selection which included my all time favorites broccoli salad and spinach dip. Great time of fellowship and great fun!! what more could a girl ask for? We heard about the lastest adventure of Haggie & Baggie, and watched as Mrs. Patrice who did a great job guarding herself from getting her picture taken. I won't know til I see pics, but if any of the group captured her, then they were fast too. It was lots of fun- They each shared an encouraging word, as I opened gifts. My mom was able to attend too. What a blessing to have so many loving friends who are so kind. The birthday wishes poured in all weekend and I received even more great gifts on Sunday. I got phone calls from family, birthday money to use on clothes, chocolate and more chocolate. yummy!! so thank you, thank you and thank you to all who remembered me.

an assortment of birthday goodies.

Good news!!

2007-07-10T22:59:00.000-06:00

I'm here with good news and an update on my toe situation. As many of you know I thought I broke my toe last week, as it turns out I didn't. I did however bruise it really bad. I had Karen take a look, and being an emt's wife she has knowledge of these sorts of things. I am happy to report the swelling and discoloration is gone, but its still a bit sore- but only when I put the wrong pressure on it. I would like to thank all who prayed for me- it really makes a difference. Love ya.

a few of the guests!

2007-07-10T22:47:00.015-06:00

cake, presents, & fun

2007-07-10T22:38:00.015-06:00

It's his day

2007-07-07T23:39:00.000-06:00

Happy 2nd Birthday Matthew!!!

We love you bunches & bunches.

On the go...........

2007-07-05T22:07:00.000-06:00

Hi, If this hasn't been a crazy week- I don't know what is. A run- down of the week;

Monday- went and dropped of car at Legion Auto, this time it was the Cadillac conventer- I like Mickey and appreciate his and his employs hard work and time - and they are always so friendly.

Tuesday- went and picked up said car, took several naps, went pricing swing sets as I hope to get Matthew a new one for his b-day. In the afternoon- had a small fender bender - no serious injuries- thank you God- but I did manage to either brake or seriously fracture my big toe on right foot. Did it stop me? no- only slowed me down a bit. I went walking in Joliet and to see fireworks. I was supposed to see them w/ The Todd's and Smith families- but I kept going forward and lost them. Oops sorry if I worried anyone.

Wednesday -cleaned up a bit- went to a family 4Th of July celebration in plainfield - I believe it was enjoyable by all- only down fall was the scorching heat or rather humidity. I managed to eat only a little for strength. Met several new people- friends of other guests. They fit right in- and that really warmed my heart. In the evening went to church- worked nursery so I missed the lesson. Afterwards I was supposed to go see fireworks- but by 9:30 I was extremely tired and my foot was hurting so I dropped girls off by their daddy and called it a day. The plus side we all slept really well - a first in quiet a while.

Today- spent entire day @ sister-in-laws and the kids swam, swam, and swam. Came home w/ the intention of accomplishing something but lost power- so headed to the Todd's house. Kris took us shopping to pick-out Matthew's cake and that's done. I still have lots to do before Matt's party gets under way on Saturday- but with the Lord's mercy, grace, and strength I will get it done. Tomorrow I'll be @ Mrs. Julie's and out running errands. So if I don't blog anytime soon I will update you w/ pics and stories maybe next week.

p.s. We still have 5 letters to do for letter of the week- and when time allows I will resume.- it's not that I forgot- it's I don't have the time. So til next time- take care.

The golden box

2007-07-02T21:10:00.000-06:00

Another heart tugging-eye watering lengthy e-mail from my mother. It is very touching and one I couldn't pass on not sharing. I enjoyed it and I hope you do as well.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

A young man learns what's most important in life from the guy next door.

It had been some time since Jack had seen the old man.

College, girls, career, and life itself got in the way.

In fact, Jack moved clear across the country in pursuit of his dreams.

There, in the rush of his busy life,Jack had little time to think about the past and often no time to spend with his wife and son. He was working on his future, and nothing could stop him.

Over the phone, his mother told him, "Mr. Belser died last night. The funeral is Wednesday." Memories flashed through his mind like an old newsreel as he sat quietly remembering his childhood days. "Jack, did you hear me?" Oh, sorry, Mom. Yes, I heard you. It's been so long since I thought of him. I'm sorry, but I honestly thought he died years ago," Jack said. "Well, he didn't forget you. Every time I saw him he'd ask how you were doing. He'd reminisce about the many days you spent over 'his side of the fence as he put it," Mom told him. I loved that old house he lived in," Jack said."you know, Jack, after your father died, Mr. Belser stepped in to make sure you had a man's influence in your life," she said. " He's the one who taught me carpentry," he said. "I wouldn't be in this business if it weren't for him. He spent a lot of time teaching me things he thought were important...Mom, I'll be there for the funeral," Jack said. As busy as he was, he kept his word. Jack caught the next flight to his hometown. Mr. Belser's funeral was small and uneventful. He had no children of his own, and most of his relatives had passed away. The night before he had to return home, Jack and his Mom stopped by to see the old house next door one more time. Standing in the doorway, Jack paused for a moment. It was like crossing over into another dimension, a leap through space and time The house was exactly as he remembered. Every step held memories. Every picture, every ,piece of furniture....Jack stopped suddenly. What's wrong, Jack?" his Mom asked "The box is gone," he said "What box?" Mom asked. ? "The box that he kept locked on top of his desk. I must have asked him a thousand times what was inside. All he'd ever tell me was the thing I value most,'" Jack said. It was gone. Everything about the house was exactly how Jack remembered it, except for the box. He figured someone from the Belser family had taken it. "Now I'll never know what was so valuable to him," Jack said. "I better get some sleep. I have an early flight home, Mom."

It had been about two weeks since Mr. Belser died. Returning home from work one day Jack discovered a note in his mailbox. "Signature required on a package. No one at home. Please stop by the main post office within the next three days," the note read. Early the next day Jack retrieved the package. The small box was old and looked like it had been mailed a hundred years ago. The handwriting was difficult to read, but the return address caught his attention. "Mr.Harold Belser" it read. Jack took the box out to his car and ripped open the package. There inside was the gold box and an envelope. Jack's hands shook as he read the note inside. Upon my death, please forward this box and its contents to Jack Bennett. It's the thing I valued most in my life." A small key was taped to the letter. His heart racing, as tears filling his eyes, Jack carefully unlocked the box. There inside he found a beautiful gold pocket watch. Running his fingers slowly over the finely etched casing, he unlatched the cover. Inside he found these words engraved: "Jack, Thanks for your time! -Harold Belser." The thing he valued most was...my time"Jack held the watch for a few minutes, then called his office and cleared his appointments for the next two days. "Why?" Janet, his assistant asked. "I need some time to spend with my son," he said."Oh, by the way, Janet, thanks for your time!" "

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away,"

Think about this. You may not realize it, but it's 100% true.

1. At least 2 people in this world love you so much they would die for you.

2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.

3. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you.

4. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.

5. You mean the world to someone.

6. If not for you, someone may not be living.

7. You are special and unique.

8. When you think you have no chance of getting what you want, you probably won't get it, but if you trust God to do what's best, and wait on His time, sooner or later, you will get it or something better.

9. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good can still come from it.

10. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look: you most likely turned your back on the world.

11. Someone that you don't even know exists loves you.

12. Always remember the compliments you received. Forget about the rude remarks.

13 . Always tell someone how you feel about them; you will feel much better when they know and you'll both be happy.

14. If you have a great friend, take the time to let them know that they are great.

Send this letter to all the people you care about, if you do so, you will certainly brighten someone's day and might change their perspective on life...for the better. To everyone I sent this to"Thanks for your time". "

Yeah, I'm done!

2007-06-28T20:13:00.000-06:00

Greetings blogging buddies. I've missed you. It's been a crazy week of cleaning, scrubbing, and sorting, and I've accomplished everything I set out to do. I now have 1 1/2 days of freedom to relax. I admit it hasn't been all work, no play because I did do things w/ Mrs. Rose V. all day Monday. Her and hubby Joe had me over for dinner, and I got the chance to visit w/ him. He is really a nice guy but has a lost soul. I went over again this afternoon, just to surprise them . A really nice short visit, and Rose and I tried to invite him to church. He said No, which I was sort of expecting but he did invite My family and I over for a cook-out sometime this summer- so I guess inviting him to church didn't offend him that much. I truly believe we will eventually win him sooner or later, might even take Pastor Dave . We will wait a bit longer, he hasn't met Jr yet, so we will see. My family comes home Saturday, and I can't wait. So I'll keep you updated. For now though I need to to go, I'm spending the night w/ my mom and I really should be visiting her since we don't see each other as often as before, so have an enjoyable cool evening- while I'm off to socialize.

Family is......

2007-06-22T21:30:00.000-06:00

A gift from God up above, that keeps giving its unconditional love.
the length of 4-ever because even after til death do we part, we'll

always be remembered in someones heart.

the warmth of an embrace, a peck on the cheek

helpful- always wanting to lend a hand.

a relationship, that always stays together.

an ever growing thing.

your strength and weakness.

learning through trials and tribulations

those that accept you- for who you are.

encouraging

kind

always inviting

Like Kris said " this was fun" and I join her in tagging all of our blogging buddies.

A NEW FRIEND

2007-06-18T23:14:00.000-06:00

Today, I made a new friend out of an old acquittance. I've known of Mrs. Rose from Sunday school class and even gave her a ride once, But today we got together like old friends. I was taking her to run some errands and we made a whole day of it. We did lunch, shopped, and just sat there- in her home getting better acquatined. It was a wonderful time of fellowship. She is so friendly and full of life. She also has a very happy spirit and a great attitude toward all things in general, even being comical at times. I needed a good laugh- and she gladly delivered- she sent not only Jackie and I away w/ smilies on our face, but all who came in contact with her. Thank you Mrs. Rose for a Great Day! and Thank You Lord for bringing her to GBC. I look forward to getting together again.

letter of the week

2007-06-18T22:09:00.000-06:00

is for REDEEMER - our Jesus who died for us.
for repentance, resurrection, and righteousness.
for remembering our families - past & present
and those times that came an reconciliation.

The Ray family (my maiden name) and all the relatives that I've gained.reunions that can be so much fun- for watching rainbows after it's rained for Roy my father-in law and recalling those moments we once shared.for all our friends- Rachel, Ron, Rose & Renee . For critters like the raccoon and reindeer-and ravolli that we enjoy eating.

Thank you for Reading, and the time to relax. Hope you all enjoy a good nights rest.

lots of news!

2007-06-14T21:04:00.000-06:00

Yeah!! I didn't have to take anyone anywhere today. I was beginning to think I was going to have to order a sign that says " Kim's taxi service". Don't get me wrong~ I love helping others but there comes a time in ones life where we just need a brief break- only downfall of not needing to take someone someplace is I miss seeing them. I rarely see my one friend-but saw her practically everyday for a little over a week because I was taking her back & forth to Silver Cross Hospital to visit her hubby- who is finally at home. I'm positive we are all relieved for that blessing. - though I do miss her. I'm going to miss our little friend Autumn as well~ I picked her up Monday night and she went home today. She is such a well mannered and delightful child and we just love her company. But aren't we all like that? We're happy to get away a few days but then for long for home. I believe she'll return soon~ because she knows our door is always open.

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I was so looking forward to seeing my little brother and meeting his new wife this month or next, but due to some minor technicalities w/ lots of paper work neither will happen. The wedding has been briefly post-poned until sometime in the fall- and you can't blame the guy for not wanting to leave his fiancee back in Guam for ten days. It'll be two years this July since his last visit and if we must wait, then we will. All that counts is that each of us know our family members love us- and we're just a phone-call away.

So til then- stay safe- and always remember someone loves you.!!

Tag- We are all it!

2007-06-11T19:57:00.001-06:00

Mrs. Julie has tagged us with this interesting topic~ " 7 things I've learned" and though there are many- these are the ones that stick out-
1. I've learned to be content and thankful for all that God has provided me.
2. I've learned to be more obedient, and submissive toward my husband( hard work!! and its something I continue to learn.)
3. I've learned the Bible can be a very interesting and helpful resource in our daily lives.
4. I've learned that God will never forsake me, even in my time of trial and doubt.
5. I've learned I can't change others, but I can change me. ( another non-stop lesson)
6. I've learned that life lessons from long ago, were only to prepare me for my role as a wife and a mother.
7. I've learned that one can not judge people by first impressions, but by one's heart. ( I have many dear friends who are a great encouragement to me ~ whom I would have never imagined being a part of my life.)
8. ( freebie) I've learned that the more I let my children be- who they are the more they are wiling to help me.
So thank you God, Pastor Dave & Mrs. Julie for 5 great years @ GBC and all the work you do in preparing us these wonderful lessons, and I look forward to many more . Love, Kim

xyz......

2007-06-10T21:51:00.000-06:00

Hi blogging fans, this week I've decided to put a new twist on the letter of the week, instead of a singular, I've gone with the combination of xyz..... and though I'm known for going overboard a bit~ I've kept it short and extremely simple.

x-rays~ what cool pics they make- considering they are more of a doctors tool.

xylophone~ what a neat instrument!

yearly outings
yesterdays

year books

yellow

yogurt

youthful personalities

young people

yodelers

Watching the Zebra at the Zoo.

Well, there you have it. short and simple and I've even kept my word, choosing to do the letter of the week. so to all of you ~ have a great day.

The Word of the Week

2007-06-07T16:22:00.000-06:00

Hi Ladies, Just here to invite you to play along w/ this Word of the Week which happens to be collections" the idea of the game is to make as many words as you can from this one word. Courtesy of Jean~ I'm highly considering this game after we run out of letters for our current letter of the week or if any of you have any ideas I'm open for suggestions I think it might play better after summer vacation. Jean's blog is very pretty, colorful and friendly~ just ask Trish. here is her address.http://welcometoourworld-jean.blogspot.com/.

The Surpise !

2007-06-04T21:06:00.001-06:00

My hubby surprised me last night, with an usual request. He wanted me to accompany him on his morning errands and Mondays I usually stay home to catch up w/ cleaning while the boys do their own thing. I had plans though ~ non of which was set in stone~ besides 2 which I was able to work around. I started w/ the laundry first thing~ folding and sorting in piles . Then it was off to drop my friend @ Silver Cross Hospital, then back home again. The total round trip would normally be 30-35 minutes but today it was closer to an hr. The biggest factor being traffic, which was backed up because the light was out at State & The big bridge. True to his word, he waited, then we were off again. First stop~~ for him to get his blood drawn~ a necessity if he wants his blood pressure meds. I figured his true intention of inviting me ~ was to go and explore the great outdoors~ inside . I loved it.I was amazed at the detail that went into decorating this place, the rocks, the cliffs, the animals but my personal favorite was the Waterfall. I love waterfalls. I mistakenly thought all creatures were stuffed when I happened to look in the pool~ and saw real fish moving. I am still amazed at the all beauty this place offered. It will diffently be a rainy day outing.~ and camera worthy. We did lots today, and I accomplished what I set out to do. I thank my Hubby for a enjoyable day, and the Lord for all the beautiful things he has provided .

The Weekly Letter....W

2007-06-04T17:52:00.001-06:00

Well I'm here with the letter of the week, despite the thought of wanting to retire it for the summer, and probaly would consider it, but I keep hearing Pastor Dave saying " finish, finish,finish" so as you see I can't stop now. So here is our thankful list.....

In the beginning was the WORD, and the WORD was with GOD,and the WORD was GOD. ( John 1:1)

WISDOM is the principal thing; therefore get WISDOM: and with all thy getting get understanding (Proverbs 4:7)

Women~~ ( Titus 2: 3-6) The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers,not given to muchwine, teacher of good things;That they teach the young women to be sober,to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet,chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands,that the word of God be not blasphemed.

( these verses remind me of all the wonderful ways I've grown and how it was the older women that were fine examples and also by the Grace of God)

The WAY~~ Jesus saith unto him, I am the WAY, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. ( John 14:6)

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other people and things we're thankful for:

William~ my grandfather, my brother, a cousin, a brother-in-law, a nephew.

Wellman Family ~ such a happy spirited group

Soul Winners~ for Christ /Wonderfully Made Ministry

West Virginia~beautiful state & Hubby is from there

Wednesday~mid week prayer meeting & Bible lesson

watermelon~~ yummy ! / wagon~ very handy & lots of fun

watches~ do you have the time? water- for all the many things its intended for.

windows/ washing machine/ baby wipes~ for everything

wood-peckers~ cool looking birds/whales~ big & pretty

work~ wages~ wonderful friends & family~ wise counsel

Wal-Mart~ who doesn't shop there!!

Walgreens~ my second fav 24 hr. store other than Meijer.

waffles~ great breakfast food.

Sorry about the long list~ but you know me~ I easily get carried away >>>

A Birthday Message

2007-06-03T21:24:00.001-06:00

Happy Birthday Mrs. Julie

May the Lord bless you for your Love and Kindness.